The Ultimate Self-Help Book List: 20 Titles to Change Your Life
- Jerod Foos
- Oct 31, 2024
- 6 min read
Updated: Nov 1, 2024
Tired of sugarcoated crap and empty promises? These books might actually help you if you can stomach the truth.
If you are starting on the deep dive into yourself, these are must-reads. I have read many of these at different points in my life, and each time, I get more out of them.
Ultimate Self Help Books: Timeless Classics
How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie (1936): This timeless classic offers practical advice on building relationships and effective communication. Carnegie breaks down the art of human interaction into simple, actionable steps. Whether you’re a shy introvert or a natural extrovert, this book can help you improve your social skills and become more persuasive.
Why you should read this: If you struggle with social interactions or want to improve your people skills, this book is the OG.
Man’s Search for Meaning by Viktor Frankl (1946): A harrowing account of survival and the human spirit. Frankl’s experiences in a Nazi concentration camp led him to develop a unique theory of meaning, which can help you find purpose in your own life.
Why you should read this: If you’re feeling lost or hopeless, this book can inspire you to find meaning in your life, no matter what your circumstances.
Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill (1937): A relic from the past, but it’s got the ultimate advice on hustle and determination. This book is the foundation for most of the latest visualization and manifestation ideas out there today from Tony Robbins (Awaken the Giant Within), Brian Tracy (Eat that Frog), Jim Rohn, and Earl Nightingale.
Hill’s principles, such as desire, faith, and persistence, are as old as time. While some of the ideas may seem outdated, the core message of hard work, visualization and perseverance remains relevant.
Why you should read this: If you’re looking for motivation to achieve your goals, this book can provide you with the inspiration you need.
The Power of Positive Thinking by Norman Vincent Peale (1952): A bit cheesy, but it’s got some practical advice on managing stress and anxiety. Peale’s emphasis on the power of positive thinking can help you overcome negative thoughts and cultivate a more optimistic outlook. While it may not solve all your problems, it can certainly improve your mental health.
Why you should read this: If you struggle with negative thinking or low self-esteem, this book can help you develop a more positive mindset.
Ultimate Self Help Books: The Modern Era
The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen Covey (1989): A timeless classic that teaches principles of personal and interpersonal effectiveness. Covey’s principles, such as being proactive, beginning with the end in mind, and seeking first to understand, can help you achieve your goals and build strong relationships.
Why you should read this: If you want to improve your time management, communication skills, and leadership abilities, this book is a must-read.
Rich Dad Poor Dad by Robert T. Kiyosaki (1997): A popular but controversial but it’s a good primer on financial literacy. It has been criticized for oversimplifying complex financial concepts and promoting risky investment strategies. Kiyosaki challenges conventional wisdom about money and investing, emphasizing the importance of financial education and asset building. While some of his ideas are criticized, the book offers valuable insights into financial independence.
Why you should read this: If you want to improve your financial literacy and build wealth, this book is a great starting point.
The 48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene (1998): A cynical look at power dynamics. It’s not for the faint of heart, but it’s a useful tool for navigating the corporate world. Greene’s analysis of power plays and manipulation tactics can help you understand the game and protect yourself from being exploited. However, be careful not to become a manipulative jerk.
Why you should read this: If you want to understand the dynamics of power and influence, this book is a must-read.
The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle (1997): A spiritual guide to mindfulness. It’s a bit woo-woo, but it’s got some good advice on letting go of the past and living in the present. Tolle’s teachings on mindfulness and present-moment awareness can help you reduce stress, anxiety, and depression. Just don’t expect to achieve enlightenment overnight.
Why you should read this: If you want to improve your mental health and live a more mindful life, this book is a good starting point.
The 5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman (1992): A practical guide to understanding and expressing love. Chapman’s five love languages - words of affirmation, acts of service, receiving gifts, quality time, and physical touch - can help you communicate your love more effectively and deepen your connections with others.
Why you should read this: If you want to improve your relationships, this book can help you understand your own love language and the love languages of your loved ones.
Recent Bestsellers
Atomic Habits by James Clear (2018): A practical guide to building good habits and breaking bad ones. Clear’s approach to habit formation is based on science and provides a step-by-step process for creating lasting change.
Why you should read this: This book is a must-read if you want to improve your habits and achieve your goals.
The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck by Mark Manson (2016): A refreshing take on self-help. Manson challenges conventional wisdom about happiness and success, encouraging readers to focus on what truly matters and let go of the rest.
Why you should read this: If you’re tired of self-help books that tell you to be positive and grateful all the time, this book is a refreshing change of pace.
You Are a Badass by Jen Sincero (2013): A motivational book with a positive attitude. Sincero’s energetic and empowering approach can help you overcome self-doubt and believe in yourself.
Why you should read this: If you need a boost of confidence and motivation, this book is a great choice.
The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz (1997): A spiritual guide to personal freedom. Ruiz’s four agreements - be impeccable with your word, don’t take things personally, don’t make assumptions, and always do your best - can help you improve your communication and relationships.
Why you should read this: If you want to improve your relationships and live a more peaceful life, this book is a great starting point.
Girl, Wash Your Face by Rachel Hollis (2018): A motivational guide for women (and men for a great perspective), encouraging them to embrace their true selves and overcome self-doubt. Hollis offers practical advice on how to build self-esteem, set boundaries, and achieve your goals.
Why you should read this: If you’re a woman who needs a little inspiration, this book can help you overcome self-doubt and live your best life. If you're a man, it is a great perspective on how women overcome challenges.
Can’t Hurt Me by David Goggins (2018): An inspiring autobiography of a former Navy SEAL who shares his experiences of overcoming adversity and achieving extraordinary feats. Goggins’ story of resilience and perseverance can motivate you to push your limits and achieve your goals.
Why you should read this: If you need motivation to overcome challenges and achieve your dreams, this book is a must-read.
Mindset by Carol Dweck (2006): A groundbreaking book exploring the power of mindset and how it can shape our lives. Dweck’s research shows that our beliefs about our abilities can significantly impact our success. This is where the word mindset became popular, and it was one of the first actual scientific deep dives into the power of mindset.
Why you should read this: If you want to develop a growth mindset and achieve your full potential, this book is essential.
The Gifts of Imperfection by Brené Brown (2010): A heartfelt exploration of vulnerability, courage, and authenticity. Brown’s research and personal stories can help you embrace your imperfections and live a more fulfilling life.
Why you should read this: If you struggle with self-doubt and fear of failure, this book can help you overcome your insecurities and live a more authentic life.
The Power of Habit by Charles Duhigg (2012): A fascinating look at the science of habit formation and how we can change our behaviors. Duhigg’s research can help you understand how habits work and how to change them.
Why you should read this: If you want to break bad habits and form good ones, this book is a must-read.
The Secret by Rhonda Byrne (2006): A new-agey book about the law of attraction. While it may seem a bit out there, it’s a good reminder to stay positive and focus on your goals. Ironically, this book re-interprets many of the original OG "Think and Grow Rich" concepts listed above.
Why you should read this: If you’re looking for a quick and easy way to improve your life, this book may be for you.
The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho (1988): A new-age fable about following your dreams. Coelho’s story of a young shepherd’s journey to find treasure can inspire you to pursue your passions and live a more fulfilling life.
Why you should read this: If you’re feeling lost or uninspired, this book can help you find your purpose and passion.
Remember, these books are just tools. It's up to you to use them wisely. And don't forget to take everything with a grain of salt. But there is a reason that they are the ultimate self-help books. A starter kit if you will.
Never stop learning!
Until next time,
Jerod
P.S. If you're on this page, you are obviously on your path to personal growth. Take a look at this course. It applies much of the wisdom these books offer into practical step-by-step lessons to improve your life by changing yourself from the inside.
Comments